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Bouncing Back after Six Kids

"Before" picture:
Mandy with her twin daughters

"After" picture:
Mandy with Karen Voight

I never was overweight when I was young. I used to model in my teens. I never exercised. My battle of fat came when my first 2 children were born just 19 months apart and then I had my 3rd child after that.

The problem really started when I was trying to lose the 50+ pounds I gained with my third pregnancy when I got pregnant again with identical twins. It was a high risk pregnancy so I wasn't allowed to do any exercise. I snacked on cheese nachos every night at 2 AM. I got so big that I had no neck and felt like a giant pillow. My highest weight was 229 lbs.

After my babies were born, I was miserable about how I looked. I hated having my picture taken. I hated all my black stretch pants that were worn in the inner thighs. I stayed home and didn't want to go out. I was tired and my back hurt all the time. I wore dresses with no waists. I didn't have any time for myself with 3 little children and then 2 newborn twins who needed my constant attention. I would cry at every picture of me I saw. I knew that I needed to lose weight.

I had bought some Kathy Smith exercise videos but never used them much. They didn't keep my attention. Then I rented the Firm videos from Blockbuster and fell in love with them! They were very tough and I could barely get through them. I couldn't even do ab crunches since my abs were so weak. Then I bought Tortoise and Hare and was hooked on them. The ballroom aerobics were perfect for me because I was too overweight to do normal stepping. I used a 4 inch step and it was perfect. When Strongbody and Strongheart came out, I got those too and was hooked.

At first, I used a 12 inch tall box with no weights. It was so hard to balance. But with consistency, I was able to do it. Then I added 5 lb. dumbbells and then 8 lbs. Now I used 15 lbs with a 14 inch step. As I slowly lost the weight, I kept getting more videos. I found Karen Voight and Cathe Friedrich and added their videos too. It was easy to stay consistent with the workouts because they were fun. I didn't get bored. I also think a BIG encouragement was writing after each workout in my exercise diary. I would write what workout I did and how long. I would write about how I felt. This really helped.

I loved the way I felt after each exercise session. I think it helped me with the stress of new babies too. I would have my husband watch the twins in their swings as I exercised, which was in the late evening most of the time. Or I would exercise when the all the kids were napping. I was determined to lose the weight. I didn't have a scale so I would just monitor the way my clothes were fitting. They were getting looser and I could finally wear jeans. It didn't happen overnight. It was a very slow process. There were days when I had to miss a workout but I wouldn't let it get me down. I would just get more motivated to pick up the next day. I would look forward to my workouts all day long. I couldn't wait to pick up my weights and work out.

My schedule consisted of a total body Firm video 5 days a week and a step tape by Cathe Friedrich (Step Jam or Step Heat) or Karen Voight Energy Sprint the 6th day. I tried to work out everyday so if I did miss a day, it was OK.

For my diet, I was nursing my twins for a year so I couldn't cut out too many calories. I tried to pick the healthiest foods and not fatty ones. The Firm 20 Questions about fitness made me realize I wasn't eating enough protein so I would add a scrambled eggwhites to my breakfast on a plain blueberry bagel. I love fruit so I try and make fruit salads as often as possible. I also love to juice in a juicer. My favorite lunch is a veggie taco. It is a flour or wheat tortilla with steamed broccoli, cut up cabbage, lettuce and shredded carrots and pickles and barbque onions. I add a little mayo. For dinner, I love rice with vegetables and lean chicken stir fry or steamed fish. Or we will have spaghetti with lean turkey for the meat. I love to have a big salad and build around it. Another tip is use a small plate for dinner. I lost weight just from that!

It took me 2 years to feel better about myself. Then I got pregnant again with my sixth baby. This time, I exercised through the whole pregnancy and was back to exercising six weeks after my baby was born. Exercising to videos works and they were the only form of exercise I did and still do.

Now I have a new love for Tae Bo and I use Billy Blanks videos in my workout schedule. I also use Cathe Friedrich's Pure Strength series and have seen incredible changes in my body. Cathe's ab sections have strengthened my abs so much that I wore a bikini for the first time this summer of '99. The last time I wore a bikini was the summer of '88. This was one of my highest goals.

If I have a sore knee, I work around it. I do slide if my knee is sore. If my lower body is sore, I do upper body. I do some form of exercise everyday. I also park my car far so I have to walk far. I take the stairs instead of the escalator or elevator. I try to move all the time. It really does add up. Fitness is a part of my lifestyle now as eating and breathing.


Mandy with her family

I just had my doctor check up and she said that my weight was normal for my height. It is 20 lbs more than when I first got married. But when I got married I didn't have any muscle tone and didn't exercise. Plus I was 20 years old and I can't expect my body to be the exact same weight when I was 20. I've had 6 kids!

Now when I look in the mirror, I smile. I love what I see. I think I look better than when I was in my 20's! I'm 32 and getting better day by day with exercise videos.

Mandy Lee
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Editor's note: Mandy gave birth to her seventh child, Adam Scott Lee, in July, 2000.


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